Day two of the work week and we are nearing the one month anniversary of my discovery day (as its referred to on infidelity support websites). I cant believe its almost been a month. One of the worst months of my 32 years. Please, please, please, God, tell me that this will get easier. Tell me that the month of May will one day NOT be filled with grief and sadness. Show me strength and the ability to trust this man. I cant stop thinking about the deleted messages from his computer last night. I cant get this feeling out of my gut. I cant stop perusing the internet, searching for as much information as I can get my hands on about her… I would love to get her home phone number to compare it to the phone numbers on our cell bill, but her soon to be ex husband is a police officer so that’s impossible. I check the phone records regularly, looking for more secrets and am not satisfied when I find nothing. I am convinced he is still lying, but I take a deep breath and try to convince myself that he couldn’t possibly be THAT bad of a person that he would continue to lie to me. He wants to work it out. He wants only me. He wants only me. He wants only me.
The day I discovered that my husband was having an affair was excruciating and the days that followed were worse. My life became filled with horrible realizations and images of the affair, which turned out to be some of the most painful days I had lived. I share this to bring comfort and support to anyone who has gone through this AND bring about a sense of reality to anyone who is cheating... this is how you make them feel and this is what you have done to a person who does NOT deserve this.
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Wednesday, June 1, 2011
Day Twenty Nine
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anniversary,
betrayal,
discovery day,
hope,
rebuilding relationship
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