Today I decided to try to stop punishing him. I have to. The more I punish him, the shittier I feel and that’s not going to get either of us anywhere. I don’t want a miserable life, I want a happy one. The only way to achieve that is to stop with the anger and constant conversations. My goal… one week of NOT talking about it with him. I wont bring her or the affair up for one week. My expectations are fairly low, but I am going to try anyway. I cant continue life like this, something has to change. I cant change what he did, so I will challenge myself to change what I do. Challenge accepted.
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