My saturday was spent on the couch, in pain, nursing a pinched nerve in my neck that cascaded down my spine and made my fingertips tingle. Terrible. I havent felt like this since I was rear ended 10 years ago... and all I did was do the hokey pokey at the library yesterday!
When I woke up I was unable to get out of bed without help. He was so good, lifted me so gently and winced at my groans of pain. He insisted on taking the kids to his brothers for the day so I could be alone with my bum shoulder and pain. It worked. I sat all day, did nothing productive and wallowed in my dirty house (he is a good nurse, not a good maid). I didnt even care about the messy house... I just felt the horrible pain and watched tons of Bravo, TLC and Lifetime reruns all day. I got all caught up on Project Runway and Millionare Matchmaker!
He came home that night with tons of food from the restaurant he took the kids to for dinner and even yummy desserts. Again, he was sweet and gentle, insisting on doing everything and not seeming bitter at all that his weekend was spent caring for me.
The day I discovered that my husband was having an affair was excruciating and the days that followed were worse. My life became filled with horrible realizations and images of the affair, which turned out to be some of the most painful days I had lived. I share this to bring comfort and support to anyone who has gone through this AND bring about a sense of reality to anyone who is cheating... this is how you make them feel and this is what you have done to a person who does NOT deserve this.
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Showing posts with label weekend. Show all posts
Sunday, July 31, 2011
Day Ninety
Saturday, June 25, 2011
Day Fifty Six
A horribly hot dallas day… we went swimming, bbqd lunch AND dinner and went out for ice cream after. We got a lot accomplished while having some good family time. So far, it looks as though I didn’t ruin the weekend after all, we just had a terrible start.
A friend of mine called whose husband also works for the same company. There is a going away party for a coworker who just happens to also be friends with the yogurt bitch. I was going to try to wait and catch him in a lie, but lets face it, my crazy was NOT going to allow that! I asked about it and he was very open, said he had just received the evite and was going to talk to me about it that night. A quick search of his phone verified that he had only received the evite thirty minutes ago. Ok, my crazy is relieved and we went on with the rest of the night.
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